Thursday, December 6, 2012


Well, it can no longer be denied. I am most definitely in a down cycle. Every stinking year about this time it happens, yet it somehow always takes me by surprise. This year it has been helped along by some really crappy circumstances that all hit at once, and that just makes it feel a million times worse.

I could write a multitude of words right now about how I feel and why, but what good would it really do? And honestly, I try to count my blessings, but it doesn't really change how hopeless and sad I feel. I just hate this so much. 

So yeah, I just don't care that much right now if I lose a pound or gain a pound. I don't care what I eat or if I workout. I just want to get through today, this hour, this minute. I just want to feel peace, even a smidge, or an ounce of true joy. And I desperately want the crappy circumstances to get better in my life...but I don't really see a way of making that happen.

And that's just about all I have to say. 

Friday, November 30, 2012

Stressed out!

This has nothing to do with weight loss, I just need to vent. I am so stressed out that I can FEEL stress flowing through me. It is hard to explain. I feel tight, like a stretched rubber band, ready to snap at any moment. Oh, and trust me, those moments of snapping keep happening....

I have officially made my family miserable, heck, I've made MYSELF miserable. If I could, I would take a long vacation away from me. I know that it is 75% hormonal, but ugh. My PMS lasts for 7 to 10 days so it isn't going to ease up anytime soon. And the life stuff that is helping fuel the fire isn't going to go away anytime soon.

The money thing is dire right now. The two vans required hundreds of dollars to fix in the past two days, and now on top of that hubby needs two tires on HIS van, and the windshield in my van cracked all the way across yesterday. I don't know what else to say about that. Christmastime is a particularly bad time to be financially strapped. 

The other thing bothering me (to some extent even more so than anything) is my daughter's school. It is deliberately set up to be extremely hard in order to weed out the students who aren't going to be able to handle the early college classes, but it is also hurting my daughter's chances at the stellar GPA that she'd be able to earn somewhere else. 

See, not only are the classes themselves harder, but their grading scale is harder. A 94%, which is an A most everywhere else, is a B. A 85% is a C, and so on. It is FRUSTRATING. She is used to being an all-A student, but frankly it is doggone near impossible to earn all A's here. By design, which is odd to me. I dread her first grade card, if she gets a B she'll be heartbroken. But the problem is way bigger than that.

See, we have no college money saved and can't afford to pay for it, so we NEED our daughter to qualify for scholarships. By almost deliberately tanking her GPA they may be hurting her chances for college. Sure, she can get two years of free college through this school, but if we can't afford to send her to the last two or three years (or more if she and hubby have their way, heaven help us all) to finish her degree, what good is any of it? 

Oh, and she has an average of five hours of homework a night. Most nights she starts as soon as she gets home, takes a break for dinner, and does more homework all the way till it's past time to go to bed. She misses youth group on Wednesdays more than she goes these days, due to homework. She stays home all weekend most weekends doing homework. She got a part in the school play, but I might have to pull her out if practices are too long, just so she can do homework. There are also multiple long-term projects that she's working on (or supposed to be working on) that don't even count into this five hours of homework each night, and I have no idea how or when she's supposed to get them done. AAARGH!

Truthfully, I kinda want to pull her from the school, but our other options are few. The local high school? Nope. For many reasons, it is NOT an option. Private school? Nope, can't afford it. Home-school again? Maybe, but frankly I'm SO not equipped to teach her at this level, and she really doesn't want to go back to being home all day. She is a very social young lady and is really enjoying the high school environment.

So...I stress. A LOT. (No really...a lot a LOT) And sadly, it is making me unbelievably irritable and impossible to live with. I wish I still had enough faith (heck, ANY faith) to pray about this and give it to God, but those days are far gone. I try to talk to Hubby about all of this, but he is just not a worrier, and he just kinda plays the 'cross that bridge later' game way too much for my controlling mama ways. 

So I'm left with this crazy vent to the internet, which is filled with people who have WAY worse problems than I do. Stellar.

Oh, and you know how I deal with stress, you know, besides yelling and carrying on? I eat. A lot. Sigh.

Wednesday, November 28, 2012


Today was a bit more on track, I suppose. I did a short workout, I ate moderately, I was mindful of what I was doing. Not perfect, or even close, but movement in the right direction. 

Of course, then a million 'life' things happened...hubby's work van broke down, my van got a flat tire and ended up needing two new tires put on, and the groceries are scarce (was going to go tomorrow) so we will have to get a pizza for dinner. Sigh. Baby steps I guess.

Speaking of life stuff, I am tired of struggling financially and I'm feeling guilty because I don't work. I'm so torn about getting a job, though. For one thing, Hubby does NOT want me to get one. He likes me being here for the kiddo when she gets home from school (not to mention she needs dropped off/picked up because her school doesn't have bus service) so that she's not lonely (only child) or tempted to get into trouble. She's a GREAT kid, but I know from experience what unsupervised teenagers can get into...even good ones like I was. 

Then there is my mental and physical state. Ugh. Mentally I'm a mess and frankly I'm not sure how well I'd handle having a job. Anxiety attacks make it almost impossible to be productive and focused. Physically I struggle with both IBS and a kidney disorder (that I just found out about recently...long story) and they make me have far more bad days than a job would allow. 

Sooooo...what to do?

I just want us to be able to have a more comfortable life. To not struggle when the problems life inevitably brings come along. To be able to fix up the house a bit more, especially my daughter's room. To have health insurance. A newer car so Hubby can take my van for work and not have his break down every couple of months. To finally fix our ever-breaking-down sewer line. To maybe even take a vacation one day!  

I know I sound whiny, and I'm truly sorry about that. I'm just frustrated and feeling very low about the fact that if I worked, it might make a difference in our quality of life. I feel like I'm letting my family down. 

So anyway, I guess this post took a detour! Whatever. Not going to edit or throw into my drafts folder...hitting post and then hitting the shower. :)


Monday, November 26, 2012

Quick update

Yeah, I know I'm not posting much. Truth is, I'm disgusted by my lack of trying, my lack of progress, my lack of caring very much. I want to look better and I want to feel better, but I apparently don't want those things badly enough to actually DO anything about it. Argh.

I hate the way I look right now, all lumpy and mushy. My clothes are tight and unflattering. I feel like I'm a failure. 

So, yeah. Sadly I'm still holding at status quo. Carry on.

Friday, November 16, 2012

Can't find the want in me!

You know what? I am just not feeling this. I want to lose weight, but I don't want to diet. I don't want to exercise. I don't want to make sacrifices or give up snacks or put any sort of effort into this whatsoever. 

It's a problem.

Sigh. I just can't seem to get started. I know that I would eventually get on a roll with this if I would only seriously GET STARTED...but I don't really want to start. 

The further into the week it gets, the more inclined I am to just tell myself I'll start fresh next week. But then the next week comes, and I'm still not feeling it. gets pushed off once again to the next week, and so on. 

I am being a baby. Weak. Just making a lot of excuses. Allowing myself to be lazy and self-indulgent and in the end, I am seriously in denial. Serious question: DO I TRULY EVEN WANT THIS? There is a saying: 'The proof of desire is pursuit.' 

If I am truthful, I know that I am NOT pursuing it, not really, so I have to wonder if I do I truly want it? If I did, I would be trying, at least a little, to make changes. Getting off my behind and putting the work in that I know is necessary. I've done it before, I know how and I've proven that I am capable, so what is the stinking PROBLEM? Ugh.

So anyway, this is me admitting that this was yet another wasted week. All I can do is hope that I find the strength within myself to pursue, seriously pursue, soon.

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

So...what has been going on this week??

Well, pretty much just a whole lotta nothin. :)

I have been a bit distracted by my monthly appointment of sitting on the sofa with a heating pad while shoving cookies and Doritios into my mouth, and haven't had much of a reason to blog. My sincere apologies. I am, however, encouraged by the gradual reduction of snack food cravings, and thankfully the heating pad seems to have almost accomplished the task to which it was assigned...and with any luck (and with the blessing of mother nature) I should be back in business tomorrow!

Here's hoping I find my way back to the treadmill! :-)

(I hope this answers any lingering may now carry on!)


Friday, November 9, 2012

New starting weight

I have my weight now, thanks to a visit to the doctor this morning...138. That is officially up 15 pounds over what was my original goal weight. Okay, not great, obviously, but it isn't all 40 pounds that I lost, so I'm focusing on that. Knowing that if I don't stop my roll NOW, I could quickly be back to square one again. 

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Another restart??

So, I think I might be back posting here for awhile, not that anyone is still checking for updates anymore! (Except for one special know who you are!)

The problem is that my 'diet' has been WAY off the rails for a long time now. I'm not sure of what my weight is right now, I'm honestly afraid to look, but my clothes are beginning to not fit right, or not fit at all in a couple of cases. I feel blob-ish and sluggish and gross. SO....

Time to begin again? Perhaps.

The thing is, I'm not 100% feeling it quite yet. You know, the one thing I learned the first time around was that a HUGE part of success is this magical 'click' that happens that makes it all work. I'm not feeling that click right now, so I'm trying to work my way into it, if that is even possible. I'm doing small things like working out more, even if it isn't hard core just yet. Or not buying the box of Cheese-its that I really wanted at the grocery store yesterday. Sharing an order of waffle fries last night at dinner instead of getting my own. Upping my water intake again. Little things that aren't going to add up to weight loss right now, but hopefully leading up to motivation.

So what exactly is my plan? To weigh in this Saturday, for starters. Knowing where I am and moving onward from there. Trying to make better choices at the grocery store, where the battle is almost always won or lost. And keeping up the walking on the treadmill daily, building up to the intervals of running and walking that worked so well for me in the past. 

My absolute biggest battle? Snacking. I am such a snacker! I love to have my hands in a box of Wheat Thins or Doritos or heaven help me, Peanut M&Ms. (That was a previous addiction that I'd broken free of in the previous diet...I stayed off them for like 2 years and for whatever reason, they are back in my life hardcore. Shame on me!)

So yeah, maybe I'm back. Maybe. 

Friday, March 30, 2012

Poking my head out for a minute

So yeah, I'm still here and I'm mostly doing okay. Sorry for disappearing yet again, just not a lot to say, I guess. I'm still struggling in various ways, but struggle without progress isn't really fun to talk about, or read about I dare say.

So, what to talk about today? I can always fall back on the old weight loss efforts, or the lack thereof. Actually I am still plugging along some days, others not so much. I ate an entire box of Do-si-dos earlier this week. BAD. I completely stopped snacking in bed at night. GOOD. I just keep going back and forth and hoping to somehow fall into a longer pattern of good eating and behavior. Sadly, that takes a great deal of effort so I'm not really 'falling into' anything at all! One day at a time, I suppose. One meal at a time.

The one big thing that I am actually succeeding at these day is keeping myself busier. Instead of only doing the necessities everyday, I'm finding bigger projects around the house to keep me busy longer each day, and I figure that will help burn more calories along the way! We have a really small house but I'm finding plenty to keep me working, and when I run out of smaller jobs I figure I'll start painting most of the rooms...frankly they could all use a fresh coat of paint anyway!

Our nice run of weather is apparently over, which is sad but not super-sad since I know it is only a matter of time now before it's back. I LOVE me some spring weather! Getting out for walks in the park is SO much better than the treadmill, and I've learned that my moods really improve when I get some nice vitamin D everyday! Today is cold, gray, and rainy...but it is still a nice day to bundle up in a big sweater and get some laundry done! :)

One more big thing to say: Thank you SO much to all of you who emailed and facebook messaged me last week. I know I haven't responded to everyone just yet, but please know that I appreciate every single one of you and each word of encouragement you sent me! Knowing that there are people willing to take a minute to love on me and pray for me, well, it is amazing. THANK YOU.

Monday, March 19, 2012

Bad weekend = depressing post on Monday

Well the weekend did NOT go well. I didn't even make it to the funeral, I was mean and angry and hormonal and just about as ugly as it gets. So ugly that I can barely hold my head up from the weight of the shame and regret that I feel. Seriously, what is WRONG with me? Why do I allow myself to completely lose control sometimes and hurt the ones I love the most?

You know, I'm feeling very much like I'm at a breaking point, spiritually speaking. I honestly just feel like giving up. I can't seem to connect with God. I have no confidence in His love for me. I have very little faith that He hears me or cares about what happens to me. I can't let go of my hurt and confusion over why He allows me to have the debilitating mental issues that I have. I can't find Him in all the ugly that goes on in the world. I can't find Him in all the ugly that goes on in ME. I hear preaching on TV and it all sounds so empty...just phrases and verses that I've heard a million times and never seem to really manifest themselves beyond that. I am a slave to doubt, a slave to anxiety, a slave to anger, a slave to my own self-destructive tendencies.

I just feel like I'm never going to get it. I'm seemingly incapable of faith, of change, of hope or joy. I'm not changed or transformed, I'm not a new creation...I'm still the old messed up dysfunctional me, even after a lifetime of trying to find God. I don't look around and see miracles, I look around and see death and destruction and wonder where God could possibly be in it all. I do not feel cut out to be a Christian and I truly don't know how to change that. I'm sure the problem lies with ME and not GOD, but I truly don't appear to have any grasp on how to let go of whatever is holding me back.

I'm really sorry for the downer post. It was just a really, really bad weekend.

Friday, March 16, 2012

Feeling whiny and stuff

Went second-hand shopping today. UGH. Not only are the prices higher than they used to be, but it is still too early and there aren't very many summer items out just yet. Oh, and my weight gain is more and more noticeable in what size I can wear and how I look in things. YUCK all around. I am feeling very whiny now, and I'm so very impatient to start seeing results.

Not that I'm even doing that great just yet, but that is another story, isn't it?

It is also my PMS week now, and I am lucky enough to share it with my teenage daughter so yeah. Party. We are SO on each others nerves right now! Fun times.

We tried salmon last night and no one really cared for it much. Hubby said it was okay, but the kiddo and I couldn't even finish it. Oh well, now we know! Guess we'll be sticking with chicken breast, chicken breast, and more chicken breast! :)

Okay, that is all I have today. Have a great weekend!

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Just a lot of misc

Well, I never did feel better yesterday, in fact, I'm still feeling a bit off today. Oh well, it isn't anything major, and for that I am thankful! I obviously did NOT get a workout yesterday, and my eating was ATROCIOUS. Sigh. Picking myself back up and moving on!

I unpacked my spring/summer wardrobe today and I am REALLY in need of some clothes! I never really replaced my warm weather wardrobe after I lost the weight a couple of years ago so I was already short on clothes, but now what I do have is in pretty worn out and sad shape. Off to the thrift stores I go! (Tomorrow, that is!) Whatever I can't find there, I'll look for in regular stores, but I really like checking second hand stores first. Much more bang for your buck and it is pretty easy to find brand name stuff that I couldn't afford otherwise! :)

Oh, and while I am still LOVING the early spring, I have actually found two things I don't love about it. One, the extremely LOUD bird that woke me up VERY early this morning and would NOT shut up, and two, it is warm enough to heat the house up pretty hot but still too early to turn on the a/c so it was really uncomfortable trying to sleep last night. Let me tell you, I am a WIMP about sleeping when I'm hot, which is really weird since I grew up without air conditioning!

At any rate, the temperatures are expected to reach 80+ over the next several days, and today I announced that if I have to, I'm gonna pop the a/c on just for a half hour or so to cool the house a bit before bed if needed. Hubs acted okay with that, but I'm not sure if he thought I was bluffing. (I'm not) His policy has always been no air conditioning before June 1st, but I'm pretty sure I've talked him into doing it earlier every single year! :) He loves me.

This weekend may be a difficult one...I am going out of town for a funeral for my step-niece, who actually died almost 13 years ago. She was only 14 years old (just a tiny bit older than my daughter is now) and she ran away from home, but then she completely went missing. It is a very long story which I started to put here but just deleted because honestly, you guys would think I was making it up, it is just that crazy! Anyway, they found her skeleton last month, and we are finally burying her Saturday.

I wasn't emotionally close to her, seeing as how I was in my late twenties and she was a young teenager, but my mom was her grandma and they were very close. SO, I will be there for my mom and step-family, and I imagine it will be pretty emotional. I'm just so thankful they are finally getting closure after so many years of waiting and wondering. Do I even have to tell you how often I've hugged my 13 year old the past month since they found my niece?? Wow, it is just another reminder how blessed we are and how quickly everything can change.

Well, enough for today, hope you are all enjoying the weather and all that jazz!

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Feeling off today

Having a bad-ish morning, lightheaded and shaky, which of course for me leads to anxiety and uneasiness. I feel pretty gross, both physically and mentally right now. Here's the thing though, even my bad times are better with this beautiful Spring weather! Never before has it been so obvious that my regular anxiety/depression is magnified in the Winter. Thank God for an early Spring!

If I feel better soon we're heading to the park with hubby to eat some Subway and take a walk. If I'm not, I'll go lay down and take a nap. Either way, it is GORGEOUS outside and that makes everything a tad nicer. :)

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Watching out for the little things

So this morning I found out that a Timbit (a donut hole from Tim Hortons) is 70 calories. For one tiny donut hole! I've been eating them occasionally and 5 or 6 at a time. Sigh. No wonder my weight has creeped back up! It truly is the little things that make a difference, both good and bad.

Yesterday was so-so diet/exercise wise. I had a good workout, actually a really good one, a good breakfast, a good lunch, a good snack, and then a bit of a disastrous dinner. Lasagna, salad, and way too much bread. It's okay though, I'm going for mostly good, not perfection. Of course, if my weight doesn't start going back down then I will strive for closer to perfection, but for now I'm not beating myself up over it. Remember, I DID turn down Timbits this morning! :)

My mood was also so-so yesterday. It was SO rainy and gray and I was really dragging, but after my Bible study and workout (hmmmmm....connection?) I felt great for the rest of the day. Sunny and warm today so fingers crossed. I told Hubby last night that I'm finally (FINALLY!) having more good days than bad ones, which is a major relief. This winter was a bad one for my moods, especially February. I was sick and/or in pain the entire month, and my mood was deeply entrenched in a massive down cycle the entire stinking month.

I also turned 40 in February, by the way. Wonder if there's a connection with THAT? ;-)

Monday, March 12, 2012


Oh my goodness, I am crazy TIRED today! Maybe it's the time change, I don't know, but I can not seem to wake up at all. Like, I feel zoned out, kinda zombie-like. Yawn.

At any rate, let me tell you about my weekend! Saturday was pretty uneventful, took my daughter to meet up with a friend and then I popped into Kohls to see if I could find any good clearance stuff. I tried on a bunch of stuff but nothing looked good. One thing I learned though...I do NOT look good in a three way mirror! Flab-city. So depressing, but also a wake up call that I really do need to be doing this again. It isn't just about the 12 pounds, but also a much needed toning is required!

Sunday was a great day, other than being super-duper grumpy before church. It was one of those times when I was so grumpy that I was even saying out loud how stinking grumpy I was. I actually almost went to get donut-holes instead of walking in to church with the family, it sounded like the best idea ever at the time, but I fought the urge and within a few minutes of being in church I was just fine.

After church we got Chinese food, but I think I did really good. I got a child-sized version of chicken with veggies and steamed rice...the chicken is grilled instead of fried and the sauce was pretty light. I didn't eat any egg rolls, or crab rangoon, not even the fortune cookie. Okay, I did have a couple of bites of my daughter's sweet and sour chicken, but I am only human! After lunch we had a few errands to run, nothing exciting, but THEN we got frozen yogurt again! I still got plain and it was good, although not quite as good as last time. (Why is it that things are never as good the second time?)

The kiddo had to be back to church by 6:00 for her youth small group, so after we dropped her off hubs and I went for a walk in the park. It was SO nice yesterday and I am just so tickled to have the Spring weather sticking around! It does WONDERS for my moods, let me tell you, but only when it's sunny. Today is rainy and gray and I am feeling blah again. Guess I need that vitamin D!

Dinner last night was Subway, no snacking afterward, so a really good day food-wise. I feel like I am finally finding my groove again, so hopefully this time the weight will actually move down where it needs to be again. Need to get to the grocery store and make sure I have all the good food I need and none of the junk that tempts me!

Well, my brain is still on auto-pilot so I'm just going to leave it at that. Hope you all had enjoyable weekends as well!

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Saturday weigh-in

So I decided to do a weekly Saturday weigh-in again, even though it's only been three days since my last weigh-in.....and I lost a grand total of .4 lbs! Woo-hoo?

At any rate, I feel like knowing I'll be weighing in every Saturday will bring a new level of commitment, so there you go. I've not done great workouts toward the end of this week, but my eating has been more on-track. If only I could get both going good at the same time, we might be able to make some real progress!

Yesterday afternoon I started feeling pretty yucky and today I'm still a bit off, so I'm just taking it easy for the most part. There is cake on the counter in the kitchen left over from last nights small group meeting (which I missed due to feeling yucky) and I haven't had ANY! No desire even. I am really hoping I can get myself back into the groove I was in the first time around...I completely stopped craving bad food altogether. In fact, whenever I did eat something bad for me, it tasted awful! I just have to stop eating junk long enough for that to kick in.

So anyway, ta-da, first weigh-in over. Hoping next week will show a whole pound lost! :)

Friday, March 9, 2012

Remembering where I came from

Yesterday wasn't as great as the rest of the week had been, sadly. Maybe it was the weather, all gray and rainy and cold, but I just felt blah all stinking day long. I did NO workout, I ate bad for me food in amounts that were way too big, and I felt super crampy and achy.

Speaking of crampy, (TMI alert!) cramps have increasingly been a big problem for me in the past couple of years. Not just the regular ones that come a few days prior to my period, but I get terrible cramps all stinking month long now. They feel pretty much like really bad menstrual cramps, but the fact that I may feel them 9 days into my cycle, or 11 days into my cycle, or simply whenever they decide to is frustrating! And painful! Sometimes I wonder if it is ovulation, but for three days in a row? So bad that I have to have a heating pad for hours on end? Is that even how it works?

Moving on! I looked at old pictures of me last night (pre-weight loss) and WOW. Inspiration! My face was so huge and oddly that bothered me yesterday even more than the prior hugeness of my butt. :) I do not want to go back to that so yeah, newly inspired today. I may even dig out an old fat picture and hang it on the fridge. I did that before and lost 40 lbs so maybe it'll inspire me this time, too!

Wanna see one?

I thought this one would be quite appropriate, considering the nastiness I am shoving into my face and how it contributed to the problem! :) I'm thinking this is 2007-ish, by the way.

This is hubby and I at the park on Wednesday. Just putting that here cause I think he's cute. :) Hope you all have a great day and weekend!

Thursday, March 8, 2012

On a roll

Well, yesterday ended up being awesome, so that is basically three good days in a row. Nice. :) Today is gray and rainy, and I'm not feeling quite as 'up' as I have all week, but I'm not 'down' either, just a happy medium, I suppose. Hubs and I just had an argument a few minutes ago so now I'm grumpy, but again...normal grumpy, not depressed grumpy or anxious-freaking-out-oh-my-goodness-grumpy! :)

Food yesterday was 100% on plan, unless you count a very small bowl of frozen yogurt...which I don't! We discovered a new frozen yogurt place near the park we walk in and it was SO good. They put a ton of toppings and yogurt flavors out and you fix your own however you like it and then you pay by weight at the end. All I got was a small amount of low-fat white chocolate mousse yogurt and even that was AMAZING! Hubby got low-fat cheesecake yogurt with crumbled graham crackers and fresh strawberries and blueberries...let me tell you, there are no words. I'll be getting that next time!

For exercise yesterday all I did was a 1.3 mile walk in the park, not even at a very fast pace, but the fresh air was amazing and the sunshine was needed so I think it was worth the trade off!

One last thing: I did a late day weigh-in yesterday (normally I do first thing in the morning weigh-ins before I eat) and I was up to 135! Yikes. I'm going to consider it my new 'before' weight, which means to get back to goal I need to lose 12 lbs. I'm thinking I'd like to do it by June 1st if possible. (It IS possible, but will I do it? That is the question!)

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Bit of a stumble

Monday and Tuesday were GREAT days for me. Not only with my dieting/exercise plans, but spiritually and emotionally great, as well. I felt good. Really, really good. Then, all of a sudden for no reason whatsoever, I came crashing down last night at bedtime. I couldn't sleep, I had terrible stomach cramps which led to a borderline panic attack, and before you know it the feelings of despair and hopelessness set in once again.

(I absolutely hate how mentally weak I am!)

I tried to fight it but eventually I got so tired that I went with what works: eating junk food. I know, so weird, but eating tends to calm me when my panic attacks are brought on by feeling sick and/or stomach pains, it convinces me that I'm not actually sick. (This is all part of the emetophobia part of my mental issues...if you don't have it, you'll never understand the complete control it has in that moment and the irrational thoughts that take over.) Anyway, half of a package of 'fruit' snacks and a handful of Doritos later, I could finally sleep.

(Yes, this all reeks of excuse making...don't think I don't see it, too, I absolutely do!)

Then this morning I woke up still in pain and immediately I'm in that almost panic attack range. Thankfully, it never fully kicked in to full panic attack mode and it is now 11:30-ish and I actually feel like I'm doing better. I did end up eating a bagel for breakfast, which isn't on was purely a comfort food kind of thing, but I'm learning that sometimes getting through the moment is all I can do. No big deal in the grand scheme of things, but diet-wise this all adds up to not losing the weight I want to lose!

However, I am at least on the right track again. I've been working out regularly, even getting into the sweat zone that I wasn't really reaching for awhile with my wimpy workouts! I'm at least thinking before I eat, trying to hold out longer before giving in to snacking, getting a bit of healthiness focus back into my life. Speaking of that, the next thing I'm planning to add to my diet is salmon. I really don't care for fish, to be honest, but I'm willing to give it a try, especially with a hubby who deals with high blood pressure and a family history of heart disease! Any great salmon recipes out there?

I'm also mulling the thought of adding more vitamins to my life. Right now, I take B complex, a children's multi-vitamin, and calcium-D supplements. I'd like to add more, but I am so afraid of side effects (upset stomach) and I also can't swallow anything very big, which most of these are, I've noticed. The ones I've considered are: niacin, magnesium, sam-e, and fish oil. Any thoughts or experience with taking these?

So anyway, this is a bit dis-jointed and all over the place (not to mention probably pretty uninteresting!) but I'm just trying to get in the habit of daily blogging again, but more than that I'm really curious to see if there are any monthly hormonal patterns to my mental/physical issues, and I figured tracking it here might help.

Awesome weather today...sunny and temps in the 60's! I do believe we're going to take a midday walk in the of my favorite things to do! Hope you're all enjoying the pre-spring weather where you live, as well! :)

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Two days in a row of blogging! WHAT?!

So yesterday was a pretty good day. At some point, I just decided to do what I needed to do...and I did it. I did a Bible study, I did two miles on the treadmill, and I watched what I ate all day. Until dinner, that is. Ugh, dinner always gets me. (Pizza. Shhhhhhh....)

So here we are today and I'm hoping for a repeat, except for the pizza dinner, that is! I'm all dressed in workout clothes, I have praise and worship music playing, and I have healthy food to eat all day. Sometimes a plan remains just that, a plan, but it is better than no plan at all!

Oh, and as a side note, I have newly found greek yogurt. SO VERY YUM! I tried it months ago and absolutely HATED it, but recently I decided to try the fruit at the bottom kind and holy creaminess it is so good. I know, the fruit at the bottom makes it slightly less healthy but I'm thinking of it as a gateway yogurt to make my way to the plain greek yogurt eventually. ;-)

Tomorrow is forecasted (forecast?) to be sunny and in the 60' yes, Spring is indeed on the way! We are already planning on eating lunch at the park and perhaps taking a quick walk after we eat. I LOVE Spring, it is by far my favorite season! :)

Monday, March 5, 2012

Is it spring yet??

I think that, ultimately, most blogs exist to either encourage or entertain...which is why I don't post anymore. My mind is constantly moving and working, but I dare say there is nothing encouraging or entertaining about the thoughts I have these days! I have been struggling terribly with my mental issues this winter, and honestly it is all I can do to just keep going about my days as normally as possible, let alone find something within myself to share that would even slightly encourage other people!

Truth is, I've written quite a few blog posts over the past few months, but they are all nestled safely within my drafts folder, never to see the light of day. When I am consumed with anxiety and depression, as I have been for months on end now, each of my blog posts tends to be overflowing with the yuck that accompanies those feelings. Yuck, yuck, and more yuck.

So, how about I just share a couple of updates for the sake of updates and hopefully with the coming spring I'll move back into normalcy just enough to start blogging relatively regularly again!

Update on weight: It is up. (Sigh) I haven't weighed in for a couple of weeks, but I'm up around 10 pounds from my goal weight. (I'm 133-ish right now, I think) I have let myself eat whatever I want all winter long and now I'm definitely paying the price! My clothes mostly still all fit, but I don't look very good, frankly. Yesterday I was standing in front of a three way mirror in a dressing room waiting on my daughter to try on dresses and I did NOT like what I saw! SO...I'm trying to drop the ten pounds by summer. We'll see how that goes! Perhaps it will give me a reason to post here again, as boring as weight loss/dieting posts can be, at least it is something! :)

Update on parenting: We are almost done with our journey of schooling-at-home. Yes, my daughter is officially enrolled in high school and will start in August. To say I'm conflicted about the whole thing is the understatement of the century! More to come on this in a later post, I'm sure.

Update on spiritual things: Well, so much to say here, where do I start? First, I'm still trying, which is, I suppose, a victory of sorts in and of itself. However, I am still such a mess in this area. Honestly, it's the mental issues that mess me up. Living in fear, anxiety, and depression do not a faith-filled life make, yet it seems to be out of my own control to overcome them. Then to top it all off, there is this attitude that it IS in my control, it is a form of sin to give into these thoughts and I feel guilt, shame, condemnation. I pray for help, healing, deliverance, for something to change, but here I am. Still a mess, still barely hanging onto enough faith and hope to make it one more day, one more hour, one more minute.

See? That is why I don't post much! :)

So anyway, I'm still here, still breathing, still trying to get things straight. It is March now, almost spring, so here's hoping that things get better! Not sure more than two or three people still check in around here, but to anyone who is still sticking around with me: THANK YOU!

Tuesday, January 31, 2012


Just thought I'd tell you that I haven't died. I just have a really stinking boring life. ;-)